hey, it’s brad browning, and in this latestvideo, i’m going to be telling you about some of the signs you want to be looking forthat indicate your ex wants you back. now first of all, you should know that if yourrelationship with this ex was even remotely serious – if you were together for you know,more than a few months – i can guarantee you that they do still have feelings for youto a certain extent: they still do miss you, they still do love you to a certain degree.the question is whether those feelings are strong enough that they actually want youback and this is what we’re going to be looking at in this video, signs that indicatethat. but i should also warn you, you don’t want to overanalyze too much. don’t spendthe rest of your life just trying to read
meaning into places where there probably isn’tanything to be read into. it’s not going to help you get over your ex and it reallyisn’t useful, so don’t overanalyze. also, i’m going to give you a link to this atthe end of the video but i have created a free quiz tool you could take to basicallyget a score and figure out exactly how attracted to you your ex is still is and how whetheror not they want you back. so i’ll give you a link to that at the end of the videoand it will also be in description. but let’s get on to it. let’s look atsome of the signs that indicate your ex wants you back. so one of the first signs you wantto be looking for that indicates your ex wants you back is pretty obvious, and that’s thatthey contact you. if your ex is reaching out
to you, especially if they’re doing it regularly,if they’re sending messages or calling you daily, that’s a very strong signal. of courseit’s a lot less strong if they’re calling you, you know, once a month since the breakup,that’s less strong. but certainly if your ex is reaching out to you actively withoutyou initiating any contact on your side, then that’s definitely a signal. also in additionto the frequency of this contact, the way they’re contacting you can also be a signal,so if your ex is phoning you, dropping by your house, these are things that are strongerindicators of interests than simply a text message here, a facebook message there.another thing you want to think about is if they are contacting you, what are they talkingabout? what are the things, what’s the topic
of conversations that you and your ex arehaving when they contact you? or they ask – are they concerned about you? are theyasking about you and trying to stay up to date on your life? do they genuinely seeminterested or is it simply all about, you know, paying unpaid bills or dealing withgetting back their shoes from your house? whatever it is, think about the nature ofthe conversations and if it’s more sincere and they really genuinely seem to still careabout you during this conversations, that’s obviously a stronger sign. also if your exasks to meet up; if they physically want to meet up and hang out with you, that is a verygood sign – at least to some degree – that they’re still interested in you, that they’restill thinking about you, and that they want
to be around you.another sign to look out for is if your ex asks you to be friends. if they reach outto you and say, “let’s stay friends.†well, first of all, this is something i don’trecommend but if they do ask that, it is a good sign and it does mean that they are afraidof losing you from their life completely. they don’t want to let go. there’s stillsome emotional connection there and they want to retain you in their life at least to somedegree; that’s a good sign. similarly along the same lines of “friends,†if you andyour ex share mutual friends, if you had a shared social circle, and if you find outthat your ex is asking about you or talking about you to these mutual friends, then that’sa very good indication that not only are you
on your ex’s mind, but you’re on yourex’s mind enough that they’re actually bringing you up with friends and talking aboutit. so if you do hear that through the grapevine, from mutual friends, that’s another goodsign that they’re still thinking about you and interested in you.another thing is when your ex contacts you and if we assume that they are contactingyou, if they bring up things like inside jokes, shared positive memories that no one elsewill understand, or if they actively say “i miss you†or they throw out sexual innuendos,these are things that you need to be thinking about and looking for in their contacts, butespecially bringing up things that are happy memories that you shared together that noone else knows about. they show your ex is
nostalgic to some degree and missing thesecertain elements of your relationship and wanting to bring them up and think about themagain, so that’s a good sign. and finally, this is going to seem a littleobvious but if they flirt and they touch you a lot, if there’s a lot of generally thingsthat they wouldn’t do with members of the opposite sex but they’re doing them withyou when you’re in person, you’re seeing your ex, obviously that’s a great sign andit does indicate that they’re still thinking of you as possibly more than a friend.another very strong indicator that your ex is still interested and possibly wants toget back together is jealousy. this is one that you’re definitely going to want tobe looking for and as i’ve mentioned in
my ex factor guide program, it’s somethingthat will really help you get your ex back, and that’s jealousy. if your ex is jea – ifyour ex seems jealous when you’re doing pretty much anything: hanging out with peopleof the opposite sex; if they find out that you’ve been on dates; if they see you postingnew pictures on social media; you with other men or other women, whatever it is, if yourex is jealous, it’s a clear indication that they still are holding on to that romanticor that connection and they haven’t let go. jealousy is a very strong signal to lookfor that indicates your ex is potentially interested in getting back together.and finally, this one is a little bit more ambiguous. if your ex seems particularly depressed,distraught or heartbroken, all the breakup
emotions, if they seem amplified or if theyseem to last longer than you would’ve expected in your ex; if your ex seems particularlydistraught. if they come to you crying, things like that, if they just generally don’tseem to be handling the breakup well, that’s a strong signal that they may want to getback together or certainly they’re having second thoughts about their decision to breakup with you. that’s about it for this video. there’s lots of other signs you can be lookingfor, but probably the best way to figure out whether your ex wants you back or not is justto go over to my website and take the free quiz. that’s www.breakupbrad.com/quiz andi’ll have a link to it both here in the video and down below in the description. sojust click on that link and take your quiz,
it only takes five minutes and it is free.and once again, if you found this video helpful, please take your time to just click the “likeâ€button; really helps me out, appreciate it a lot. thanks again for watching and we’llsee you next time.
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